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After everything my mother had sacrificed, I was genuinely happy for her.<\/p>\n
She had spent decades putting everyone else first, especially me. I wanted her to finally have something that belonged entirely to her.<\/p>\n
Then she invited Marcus to dinner.<\/p>\n
I opened the door when he arrived.<\/p>\n
The moment I saw his face, I recognized him.<\/p>\n
I knew that man from eleven years earlier.<\/p>\n
I knew his voice.<\/p>\n
I knew the way he carried himself.<\/p>\n
More importantly, I knew something about his past that my mother didn’t.<\/p>\n
I smiled through dinner.<\/p>\n
I waited until he left.<\/p>\n
Then I looked at my mother and said something I never imagined I’d have to say.<\/p>\n
\u201cMom, before you get any closer to him, there’s something you need to know.\u201d<\/p>\n
It had started with earrings.<\/p>\n
Mom had changed them three times before Marcus arrived.<\/p>\n
\u201cThe gold ones,\u201d I called from the kitchen.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou said the silver ones.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThat was two pairs ago!\u201d<\/p>\n
Mom appeared in the doorway, holding another pair against her neck.<\/p>\n
\u201cThese?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cMom, he’s coming for dinner, not conducting a jewelry inspection.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cEasy for you to say.\u201d<\/p>\n
She looked down at the earrings.<\/p>\n
\u201cToo much?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhich ones do you actually want to wear?\u201d<\/p>\n
Her eyes drifted toward the gold pair she’d left on the counter.<\/p>\n
I picked them up and handed them to her.<\/p>\n
\u201cThen wear those.\u201d<\/p>\n
At 53, my mother was nervous about a man.<\/p>\n
That alone felt almost unbelievable.<\/p>\n
She had always been the calmest person in any room.<\/p>\n
But that night, she was nervous.<\/p>\n
She rolled her eyes at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhen did you become my mother, Jean?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAround your third outfit change.\u201d<\/p>\n
She laughed.<\/p>\n
The sound was still in the room when the doorbell rang.<\/p>\n
\u201cI’ll get it.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWait.\u201d<\/p>\n
Mom grabbed my arm.<\/p>\n
\u201cBe nice.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI’m always nice, Mom.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou once asked my dentist whether he had a personality outside of teeth.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cHe brought up plaque during lunch.\u201d<\/p>\n
The bell rang again.<\/p>\n
Mom pushed me toward the door.<\/p>\n
\u201cGo!\u201d<\/p>\n
I was still smiling when I opened it.<\/p>\n
Then I saw the man standing on the porch.<\/p>\n
He was older than I remembered. His hair had turned gray around the temples, and deeper lines framed his eyes.<\/p>\n
But I knew that face.<\/p>\n
Marcus’s polite smile faltered too.<\/p>\n
He looked at me.<\/p>\n
Then at Mom.<\/p>\n
Then back at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cJeannie?\u201d<\/p>\n
His voice erased eleven years in an instant.<\/p>\n
\u201cElla’s Jean?\u201d<\/p>\n
My grip tightened around the doorknob.<\/p>\n
\u201cMarcus.\u201d<\/p>\n
Mom stepped behind me and looked between us.<\/p>\n
\u201cWait. You two know each other?\u201d<\/p>\n
Marcus raised the bottle of wine he’d brought.<\/p>\n
\u201cJeannie worked for me years ago.\u201d<\/p>\n
Mom laughed in disbelief.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou’re kidding.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cSmall world,\u201d Marcus said.<\/p>\n
He walked inside.<\/p>\n
And with him came a memory I hadn’t revisited in years.<\/p>\n
A bookstore.<\/p>\n
A woman I had never forgotten.<\/p>\n
And one sentence Marcus used to say that had quietly changed my life.<\/p>\n
My mother had spent most of her adulthood making sure I never noticed what she went without.<\/p>\n
My father left when I was young.<\/p>\n
After that, Mom became everything.<\/p>\n
She worked extra shifts but somehow still made it to my school concerts with five minutes to spare.<\/p>\n
She remembered every appointment.<\/p>\n
Every project.<\/p>\n
Every birthday.<\/p>\n
Every little thing that mattered to me.<\/p>\n
When I was thirteen, I found an unopened pair of winter boots in her closet.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhy haven’t you worn these, Mom?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThey’re uncomfortable, dear.\u201d<\/p>\n
Months later, I discovered that she’d returned them.<\/p>\n
That same week, I got the art supplies I’d been begging for.<\/p>\n
That was how Mom loved me.<\/p>\n
She sacrificed quietly.<\/p>\n
She never announced what she’d given up or reminded me what it had cost.<\/p>\n
After college, when I finally landed a good job, I tried to reverse that pattern.<\/p>\n
\u201cTake the trip.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThat’s ridiculous money, Jean.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThen buy the dress, Mom.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI have dresses, dear.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThose are archaeological artifacts.\u201d<\/p>\n
She laughed.<\/p>\n
Eventually, she started traveling with friends.<\/p>\n
She began painting again.<\/p>\n
She joined a community volunteer group.<\/p>\n
Then one evening, she casually mentioned a man named Marcus.<\/p>\n
Within weeks, his name appeared on her phone almost as often as mine.<\/p>\n
One night, Mom admitted with a laugh, \u201cHe makes me feel twenty-five again.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI can’t wait to meet him,\u201d I told her.<\/p>\n
And I meant it.<\/p>\n
Until I opened that door.<\/p>\n
Marcus was attentive without being overbearing.<\/p>\n
During dinner, Mom coughed after swallowing too quickly, and he quietly moved her water closer without interrupting her story.<\/p>\n
He remembered that she hated mushrooms and moved the serving dish away without making a fuss.<\/p>\n
\u201cSo,\u201d Mom said, pointing her fork at him, \u201ctell Jean about the tomatoes.\u201d<\/p>\n
Marcus groaned.<\/p>\n
\u201cAbsolutely not.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou should see them, Jean.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThey’re recovering, Ella.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThey’re leaning sideways.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cToward the sunlight,\u201d he corrected.<\/p>\n
Mom shook her head.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou’re still checking on them tonight, aren’t you?\u201d<\/p>\n
Marcus shrugged.<\/p>\n
\u201cThey’re unsupervised. I finally got ours to stop collapsing.\u201d<\/p>\n
My fork froze halfway to my mouth.<\/p>\n
Ours.<\/p>\n
\u201cMy wife used to grow tomatoes,\u201d Marcus added. \u201cShe made it look insultingly easy.\u201d<\/p>\n
I looked at Mom.<\/p>\n
She smiled.<\/p>\n
\u201cMarcus inherited her confidence.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cUnfortunately, not her competence,\u201d he replied.<\/p>\n
They laughed.<\/p>\n
I didn’t.<\/p>\n
Suddenly, I wasn’t sitting across from my mother’s new boyfriend.<\/p>\n
I was sitting across from someone from my past.<\/p>\n
Years earlier, I had worked part-time at a small downtown bookstore.<\/p>\n
Marcus had been my manager.<\/p>\n
At the time, I would have described my boyfriend, Tyler, as protective.<\/p>\n
He chose restaurants because I \u201ctook forever.\u201d<\/p>\n
He picked movies because I \u201calways chose weird ones.\u201d<\/p>\n
He corrected my clothes before parties.<\/p>\n
If I missed one call, he called three more times.<\/p>\n
I didn’t recognize it as controlling behavior.<\/p>\n
I simply learned to say:<\/p>\n
\u201cWhatever you want.\u201d<\/p>\n
One afternoon, Marcus was rearranging the front display.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhich one?\u201d he asked.<\/p>\n
I shrugged.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhatever.\u201d<\/p>\n
He stopped.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhich one, Jeannie?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cEither.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI didn’t ask which one wouldn’t upset civilization.\u201d<\/p>\n
I laughed.<\/p>\n
He raised two books again.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat do you want?\u201d<\/p>\n
I studied them.<\/p>\n
\u201cThe blue one.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cGreat.\u201d<\/p>\n
He put it in the window.<\/p>\n
It should have meant nothing.<\/p>\n
But Marcus kept asking questions like that.<\/p>\n
Coffee orders.<\/p>\n
Work schedules.<\/p>\n
Display signs.<\/p>\n
Music.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat do you think?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat do you want?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhich do you prefer?\u201d<\/p>\n
Tiny questions.<\/p>\n
They seemed insignificant.<\/p>\n
But slowly, I realized that almost nobody else asked me those things.<\/p>\n
One afternoon, Tyler came into the store and criticized my sweater.<\/p>\n
I immediately apologized.<\/p>\n
Marcus was shelving books nearby.<\/p>\n
He didn’t look at Tyler.<\/p>\n
He looked at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cDo you like the sweater, Jean?\u201d<\/p>\n
Tyler laughed.<\/p>\n
\u201cApparently somebody has to.\u201d<\/p>\n
I looked down at myself.<\/p>\n
\u201cYeah,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
\u201cI do.\u201d<\/p>\n
Tyler and I broke up three months later.<\/p>\n
But there was someone else from those years whom I remembered even more clearly.<\/p>\n
Marcus’s wife.<\/p>\n
She used to draw ridiculous cartoons on his lunch bags.<\/p>\n
Marcus taped his favorites beside the register.<\/p>\n
Every Thursday, he left work exactly at five.<\/p>\n
\u201cRegional meeting?\u201d someone teased once.<\/p>\n
Marcus grabbed his coat.<\/p>\n
\u201cDinner with my wife.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThe meeting’s important, Marcus.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThey’ll survive.\u201d<\/p>\n
Then one Thursday, he didn’t leave.<\/p>\n
He sat in his office staring at his phone.<\/p>\n
The next week, he barely spoke.<\/p>\n
A month later, Marcus left the bookstore.<\/p>\n
His wife was sick.<\/p>\n
He was going home to care for her.<\/p>\n
I never saw him again.<\/p>\n
Eventually, I heard that she had died.<\/p>\n
And now, eleven years later, he was sitting at my mother’s dinner table.<\/p>\n
I couldn’t stop wondering whether Mom understood what she was getting into.<\/p>\n
Marcus stayed until just after nine.<\/p>\n
Mom stood at the door, smiling as his car backed away.<\/p>\n
Then she closed the door and turned toward me.<\/p>\n
\u201cWell?\u201d<\/p>\n
I watched through the window until his taillights disappeared.<\/p>\n
Mom’s smile faded when she saw my expression.<\/p>\n
\u201cMom, before you get any closer to him, there’s something you need to know.\u201d<\/p>\n
She said nothing.<\/p>\n
So I told her about the bookstore.<\/p>\n
About Marcus.<\/p>\n
About his wife.<\/p>\n
About how deeply that marriage had seemed woven into who he was.<\/p>\n
Mom listened without interrupting.<\/p>\n
Finally, I said what had been weighing on me all evening.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou’ve spent your whole life coming second, Mom.\u201d<\/p>\n
Her eyebrows tightened.<\/p>\n
\u201cTo bills. To work. To Dad when he was still around. To me.\u201d<\/p>\n
I swallowed.<\/p>\n
\u201cI don’t want you spending the rest of your life competing with someone who isn’t even here.\u201d<\/p>\n
Mom didn’t respond.<\/p>\n
Instead, she walked into the hallway and took her coat from the hook.<\/p>\n
\u201cPut your shoes on, Jean.\u201d<\/p>\n
I stared at her.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat?\u201d<\/p>\n
She grabbed her keys.<\/p>\n
\u201cI could explain this, but you’d still think I’m making excuses for him.\u201d<\/p>\n
She met my eyes.<\/p>\n
\u201cThere’s something you need to see.\u201d<\/p>\n
Mom drove for about fifteen minutes without explaining where we were going.<\/p>\n
\u201cAre you kidnapping me?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYes.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cGood to know.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou ask too many questions.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou raised me, Mom.\u201d<\/p>\n
That finally made her smile.<\/p>\n
But she kept driving.<\/p>\n
We turned into a community garden behind a small recreation center.<\/p>\n
Most of the plots were dark, but strings of warm lights lined the main path.<\/p>\n
Then I saw Marcus.<\/p>\n
He was kneeling beside a tomato plant, carefully tying one of its stems to a wooden stake.<\/p>\n
Mom lowered her window.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou’re strangling it.\u201d<\/p>\n
Marcus looked up.<\/p>\n
\u201cI’m supporting it.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cIt’s leaning away from you.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cUngrateful plant,\u201d he replied.<\/p>\n
I stared at Mom.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou knew he’d be here?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI knew he’d probably be here.\u201d<\/p>\n
She parked.<\/p>\n
Marcus brushed the dirt from his knees as we approached.<\/p>\n
His expression softened when he saw me.<\/p>\n
\u201cAh.\u201d<\/p>\n
I folded my arms.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat sounds reassuring.\u201d<\/p>\n
Mom touched my elbow.<\/p>\n
\u201cJean, look around.\u201d<\/p>\n
I did.<\/p>\n
Small plaques marked several garden plots.<\/p>\n
Some carried names.<\/p>\n
Others had dates.<\/p>\n
Marcus followed my gaze.<\/p>\n
\u201cThis section belongs to a bereavement group.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cBereavement group?\u201d<\/p>\n
He nodded toward the tomatoes.<\/p>\n
\u201cMy wife grew them every summer.\u201d<\/p>\n
His voice changed slightly.<\/p>\n
\u201cAfter she died, I couldn’t even look at one without thinking about her.\u201d<\/p>\n
He paused.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhen I joined the group, they told us to plant something we’d have to keep alive long enough to see another season.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd you chose tomatoes?\u201d<\/p>\n
Mom snorted.<\/p>\n
\u201cArrogance. He killed two batches.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cOne and a half,\u201d Marcus corrected.<\/p>\n
\u201cTwo.\u201d<\/p>\n
Marcus sighed.<\/p>\n
\u201cYour mother’s very supportive.\u201d<\/p>\n
I looked at Mom.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou knew about his wife?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cOf course I knew.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cHow much?\u201d<\/p>\n
Mom slipped her hands into her coat pockets.<\/p>\n
\u201cEnough to know I would have liked her.\u201d<\/p>\n
That stopped me.<\/p>\n
All evening, I had assumed Mom was too caught up in the excitement to notice what I saw.<\/p>\n
Instead, she had seen more than I had.<\/p>\n
Marcus stepped closer but kept a respectful distance.<\/p>\n
I looked directly at him.<\/p>\n
\u201cDo you still love her?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYes.\u201d<\/p>\n
He answered immediately.<\/p>\n
Marcus glanced toward the crooked tomato plant.<\/p>\n
\u201cShe\u2019s dead, Jeannie. Not erased.\u201d<\/p>\n
Then he looked at Mom.<\/p>\n
\u201cLoving your mother didn’t require me to stop loving the woman who taught me how.\u201d<\/p>\n
I frowned.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat does that even mean?\u201d<\/p>\n
Marcus rubbed dirt from his thumb.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou remember how I used to ask what you wanted at the bookstore?\u201d<\/p>\n
I nodded.<\/p>\n
He gave a faint smile.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat wasn’t originally my wisdom.\u201d<\/p>\n
I stared at him.<\/p>\n
\u201cMy wife used to get furious with me because I planned everything. Restaurants. Vacations. Weekends.\u201d<\/p>\n
He shook his head.<\/p>\n
\u201cI thought taking care of somebody meant handling everything for them.\u201d<\/p>\n
His expression grew serious.<\/p>\n
\u201cOne night, my wife finally said, \u2018Marcus, stop loving me like a project. Ask.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n
Something shifted inside me.<\/p>\n
\u201cYears later, I watched you say \u2018whatever\u2019 to every question anyone asked you.\u201d<\/p>\n
He looked at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cI recognized it.\u201d<\/p>\n
The sweater.<\/p>\n
Those tiny questions.<\/p>\n
For years, I had thought Marcus had simply taught me to have an opinion.<\/p>\n
Now I understood that he had learned that lesson from someone else.<\/p>\n
Someone who had mattered deeply to him.<\/p>\n
Someone I had feared my mother could never compete with.<\/p>\n
I turned to my mother.<\/p>\n
\u201cDoesn’t it bother you?\u201d<\/p>\n
Mom looked at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat he still loves her?\u201d<\/p>\n
I nodded.<\/p>\n
She considered it.<\/p>\n
\u201cJean, I raised you by myself for most of my adult life.\u201d<\/p>\n
She gave me a knowing look.<\/p>\n
\u201cDo you really think I’d trust a man whose answer to loss was pretending somebody never mattered?\u201d<\/p>\n
I looked away.<\/p>\n
Mom glanced toward Marcus.<\/p>\n
\u201cI’m dating the man he became.\u201d<\/p>\n
Marcus cleared his throat.<\/p>\n
\u201cThis is becoming alarmingly positive.\u201d<\/p>\n
I laughed before I could stop myself.<\/p>\n
Mom took my hand.<\/p>\n
\u201cI know why you were worried.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI thought I was protecting you, Mom.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI know, sweetheart.\u201d<\/p>\n
She squeezed my fingers.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou’ve been doing a lot of that lately.\u201d<\/p>\n
I frowned.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat does that mean?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThe trips you keep trying to buy me.\u201d<\/p>\n
I opened my mouth.<\/p>\n
\u201cThe classes. The clothes. Pushing me to date.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cMom, I just want you to have things after everything you gave up.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI know.\u201d<\/p>\n
She smiled.<\/p>\n
\u201cBut you don’t owe me a happy ending, Jean.\u201d<\/p>\n
For years, I had tried to settle a debt my mother had never created.<\/p>\n
Every sacrifice.<\/p>\n
Every extra shift.<\/p>\n
Every pair of boots she returned so I could have something instead.<\/p>\n
Every time she claimed she was fine when she wasn’t.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou gave up so much for me, Mom.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd I’d do it again.\u201d<\/p>\n
She smiled.<\/p>\n
\u201cBut my life isn’t your debt.\u201d<\/p>\n
That hit harder than I expected.<\/p>\n
I realized I had spent years trying to repay something she had never asked me to repay.<\/p>\n
Mom sacrificed because she loved me.<\/p>\n
Not because she expected to control the rest of my choices.<\/p>\n
I looked at her.<\/p>\n
\u201cI’m sorry.\u201d<\/p>\n
She squeezed my hand.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou don’t have to be.\u201d<\/p>\n
Then she smiled toward Marcus.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd for the record, I’m not coming second.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cNo?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n
She looked at him.<\/p>\n
\u201cMarcus had a life before me. So did I.\u201d<\/p>\n
Then she smiled.<\/p>\n
\u201cWe’re meeting in the middle. That’s all.\u201d<\/p>\n
Marcus suddenly brightened.<\/p>\n
\u201cSpeaking of accomplishments\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n
He carefully twisted a tiny tomato from the vine and offered it to Mom.<\/p>\n
It was small, crooked, and mostly orange.<\/p>\n
Mom stared at it.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat is pathetic.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI raised that.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou interfered with nature until it surrendered, Marcus.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI don’t need this hostility.\u201d<\/p>\n
I laughed so hard that I wiped my eyes.<\/p>\n
Marcus picked up a small hand shovel and tossed it toward me.<\/p>\n
I barely caught it.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat am I supposed to do with this?\u201d<\/p>\n
He pointed toward an empty strip of soil beside Mom’s volunteer plot.<\/p>\n
\u201cPlant something.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cSomething you’d like to see later.\u201d<\/p>\n
I looked at the empty soil.<\/p>\n
Mom was already kneeling beside it.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnything?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWithin reason,\u201d Marcus said.<\/p>\n
\u201cElla vetoed my watermelon proposal.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou had six square feet.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cDream killer.\u201d<\/p>\n
Mom handed me a seed packet from the gardening box.<\/p>\n
I read the label.<\/p>\n
\u201cWill these survive neglect?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cPlastic survives neglect,\u201d Marcus said.<\/p>\n
Mom nudged him aside.<\/p>\n
\u201cDon’t listen to him. He murdered basil.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAllegedly!\u201d<\/p>\n
I crouched beside her.<\/p>\n
For once, I wasn’t thinking about what Mom had sacrificed twenty years ago.<\/p>\n
Marcus wasn’t focused on what he had lost eleven years earlier.<\/p>\n
And Mom wasn’t waiting for permission to enjoy whatever years lay ahead.<\/p>\n
I pressed a seed into the dark soil.<\/p>\n
Mom covered another beside mine.<\/p>\n
Marcus immediately began explaining how much water they needed.<\/p>\n
\u201cAre you sure?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n
\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n
Mom laughed.<\/p>\n
\u201cAt least he’s learning.\u201d<\/p>\n
I looked at them.<\/p>\n
Then at the small patch of earth beneath my hand.<\/p>\n
Nothing was growing there yet.<\/p>\n
But that didn’t mean it was empty.<\/p>\n
It meant something could still grow there.<\/p>\n
So I planted another seed.<\/p>\n
And for the first time in years, I understood something about my mother that I had somehow missed.<\/p>\n
She wasn’t trying to replace anyone.<\/p>\n
She wasn’t erasing the past.<\/p>\n
She wasn’t asking Marcus to forget his wife.<\/p>\n
And she certainly wasn’t asking me to forget everything she had sacrificed for me.<\/p>\n
She was simply allowing herself a future.<\/p>\n
A future that belonged to her.<\/p>\n
Maybe that was what I had been trying to protect all along.<\/p>\n
I just hadn’t understood that sometimes protecting someone means trusting them enough to choose for themselves.<\/p>\n
Mom looked at the small patch of soil.<\/p>\n
Marcus stood beside her.<\/p>\n
I smiled.<\/p>\n
For the first time that night, I wasn’t afraid of what might grow there.<\/p>\n
I was curious to see.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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